We arrived and sent word in to the
DJ that we were ready. From the female contingent, there arose quite a clatter,
the bride’s not bustled, nor have I a cheese platter. I must keep these rhyme schemes from tales of Christmas yore out of my
head. What I witnessed next was remarkable, in at least a couple of ways:
part Victorian flashback, part peep show, and part engineering marvel. First
the ladies lifted up the back of Christa’s dress, as if it was perfectly
natural to do so. I was taken aback by the friskiness of the bridesmaids but
realized that Christa had plenty of material covering all the fancy parts. The
throwback part was the so-called maidens busying themselves with the lady of
the manor’s appearance. The peep-show part was the momentary curiosity that
comes from any female’s dress being lifted. I marveled at the process itself. I
think someone removed an instruction card from under there somewhere, and as I
moved around to the front to allow Christa some modesty, I could have sworn I
saw pieces of material labeled with letters. There was an entire puzzle hidden
under there. I didn’t spec out the material dimensions or see the handiwork
that produced the equivalent of a drawn Roman shade, within a couple of
minutes, but it was an impressive feat. I did a quick clasp readjust on my
expandable pants to feel as though I too, was being fussed over. I figured my
groomsmen wouldn’t want to help.
DJ re-signaled, intros made, tables
sat at, quiz began. It was as honest as the guess-your-weight game, but it did
allow for a carnival atmosphere, and no one parties like the carnies.
Our master plan scheduled our first
dance immediately after we finished eating, while everyone else, hopefully, was
still at it. We wanted our guests’ primary focus to be on the food in front of
them, so they wouldn’t realize that we weren’t really moving around that much.
Though I wouldn’t have dazzled a three-legged hippo with my grace, it was the
best dance ever. If my life ever flashes before my eyes, that moment is one of
a handful of snapshots I would want to see.
Toasts were made (by Matt and Angie).
Then we moved to cake cutting. This was not an instantaneous move. We weren’t
transported, and we didn’t actually cut the cake, at first. We pretended to cut
the cake. We pretended to cut the cake twice, or maybe we continued the initial
pretending. This was one of several moments when the photographer wanted us to
simulate doing something that we were about to do. Why he doesn’t use his
vision of the future to prevent crime, I don’t know. Maybe he doesn’t want to
be immersed in a nutrient pool, while Tom Cruise gets all the credit. After we
fake-cut the cake, we cut the cake. I mangled the hell out of that first piece,
but I won’t blame the equipment. We had decided long ago, individually, and
more recently in a bridal congress, not to smash, force, or smear any portion
of cake on one another’s face. There was too much to mess up: makeup, hair, the
dress, and our painstakingly crafted, cost-effective image of class and
elegance. We delicately fed one another, making extra certain not to bite
fingers in the process. They say it is better to give than to receive, which I
think depends on the circumstances, but it is certainly more difficult to give
and receive at the same time. We kissed afterwards, and the pre-cog nailed it,
best photo of the day, hands down.
Another toast made (by Marvin),
bouquet thrown, garter tossed, danced with parents, danced with bridal party,
danced in general.
At the completion of the bridal
dance, the DJ tried to seize on the momentum and brought out the pre-selected
ringer. We were about to witness the making or breaking of the reception. This
one song would determine the dancing future of the rest of our lives. It was
our only match to ignite the passion of the dance. I heard the intro, and now
the voice-over to put fuel on the fire and start the inferno. It’s
“Celebration” time.
“There is cake available for those
who want it on the tables by the bar,” he announced.
There
was a saboteur in our mix! The single most important decision in our entire
planning, the foreteller of our marital bliss, the ringer, was preceded by an
announcement regarding the availability of cake. You’ve ruined us. You saw the cake. You knew how tempting it was. You
were here to liberate the people from the confines of their chairs, to feel the
freedom of the dance, and make our reception a success. But when your moment
came, you turned your back on us and pursued the true prize, the fossil-fuel
thick chocolate goodness of gluttonous excess.